Ive Got A Secret Im Going To Confess

The war between guys and girls on who is more complicated can go on forever.  Girls will argue forever that guys are more confusing, and guys will argue right back…until their attention wanders to something else.  Sorry guys that was a low blow…just kidding.

Anyways when talking about guys and girls, one of the first questions that arises is “What is your perfect guy” or “What do you  look for in a girl?”  I try avoid seeming shallow and say things I strongly admire and require in the opposite sex like “a good sense of humor, honesty, trustworthiness, family oriented.” Most people like me are afraid that if they say “good looking, handsome, attractive”…or as guys say “hott”, they will sound shallow.   Lets be honest, when we envision our “soul mate” do we hear the sound of their laugh, or the nice things they would say to us? No! We envision smiley eyes, a nice smile, or whatever floats your boat as they say.  We are all human and it is natural for us to have a preference in how a person looks.  To say looks don’t matter is a white lie.  Looks do matter to an extent.  You should be physically attracted to a person enough to still give you butterflies when they flash their pearly whites, or chills when they look at you with their bright eyes.

Heres the explanation.

A person is not simply born with a perfect smile, and smiley eyes.  These characteristics are illuminated because of the good hearted qualities they posses.  A persons good heart will shine through their eyes as their sense of humor will be the brightness behind their smile.

I believe  we all are secretly looking for a person who has good looks to some extent.   When I say “I like a guy with a good smile” it means I think a guy has a good smile for the reasons that he shows it a lot like when he laughs or is trying to cheer me up, or simply that he likes to smile because he is a good, light hearted person.  Those are the most stunning and striking smiles of all…the ones used for good intentions.  Good looks are illuminated by good characteristics.   So when I am asked “What is your ideal guy like?”  I answer that my prince charming is good looking because of the right reasons.  We are all looking for a beautiful person because inner beauty is what is the most valuable and noticeable.

Everyone is beautiful.  If there is someone that is the object of your desire…show them your heart with a smile, or a glance, or a flip of the hair.  Go get em you big beautiful tiger!

Best,

A.

p.s rawr 😉

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9 Comments »

  1. Hannah (Hypershame) Said:

    ALLIE! I love all your blogs,
    loved this one abouttt guys 😄
    And I like a guy whos nice, I seriously don’t care about what they look like, I’ve fallen for guys who are nice not good looking, hard to believe but it’s just who I am.

  2. Atzzie Said:

    OMG!!…
    Allie, I love your blog is very inspiring, really …. I love each and every one of your posts are very tender, tell the truth with every word you use … you’d be an excellent writer … The truth is that we all want to find a special person, and yet we have some models for our “mate” sometimes breaks down completely because you find someone that makes you happy, without being what you were looking for. .. Allie really inspire me, you’re an excellent role model! The BEST!

  3. Atzzie Said:

    sorry was… “beter half”

  4. Miranda Said:

    This is so true and I don’t think its shallow at all to say you want a good looking guy. This has happend to me on many ocations there is a guy who I am not fully attracted to and then i get to know him and find out all these amazing qualities about him and then he becomes the most attractive guy in the world to me. So its true that looks play a role in attractiveness but personality is also a big one

  5. amandarosex3 Said:

    i do have to admit i not only want a funny, respectful, and family oriented guy but..it would be nice for him to be hot..i mean it wouldnt hurt right?!?! this guy i hav a crush on in school has this smile that makes me soo happy..im going to try and make eye contact with him on monday haha im such a loser..wish me luck! ;p

  6. vandalia1998 Said:

    Short atention span…

    Oh ya i defently have that LOL

    Too say i wouldn’t want to date a Hot looking girl would be a lie. But i alsoknow sometimes hot girls are also rude. The same goes for some hot guys too. (Not that I think guys are hot LOL)

    But ya i do look for girls who have a warmth inside of them cause i’ve been burned before and I’ve got to make sure i’M NOT GOING N BLIND.

    But then again sometimes Love is a gamble and you have to take a little risk to get anywhere

  7. sharlydhi Said:

    allie there are these people in a website ;http://www.studentsoftheworld.info/clubs/club.php?NomClub=Allie%20DiMeco%20when%20can%20we%20talk%20someti:
    that are just imposters of you! people are fighting and saying that it is or isnt you.

  8. Justin Said:

    Hey allie. I think i’m the only guy whos brave enough to comment on your site. 😛
    Anyways i just wanted to say a few things….
    You are a beautiful person on the inside and out.
    Your blog entries are really deep, truthful and inspiring.
    Hopefully you’ll see this and see all the great comments people left you.
    Thanks for your blog entries they inspire me a lot.

    Love and best wishes,
    Justin Homer

    • Justin Said:

      Correction, one of the only guys.


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